7 Top Self Care PDF Worksheets for Adults for Good Mental Health
I’ll be sharing 7 of the best self care PDF worksheets for adults for you to feel calmer when overwhelm and anxiety hit you. When you are this close to hitting burnout, it’s time to choose any of these worksheets and start journaling away!
I’ll be sharing 7 of the best self care PDF worksheets for adults for you to feel calmer when overwhelm and anxiety hit you. When you are this close to hitting burnout, it’s time to choose any of these worksheets and start to journal away!
When do we need to practise self-care?
In this blog post, I shared 7 cues for you to know when you should start caring for yourself.
If you have A FEW of these 7 thoughts running through your mind, it’s time to nourish yourself mentally, physically and emotionally.
You can create your own DIY Self Care Kit like this one which is great fun.
But for some of us, we need to pen down our worries and stresses on paper.
The 7 self care PDF worksheets below are perfect for this!
7 of the Best Self Care PDF Worksheets for Adults
I scoured through the Net to hunt down the most effective self care PDF worksheets for adults.
I use my intuition and counseling experience to decide which of the hundreds of self care PDF worksheets floating around the internet will be most effective for us.
These are 7 great self care worksheets I found:
Self Care Action Plan from SeeTheTriumph blog
A lovely Self Care Pack from LovelyHolisticLiving.com
Self Care Plan from ilovenamaste.com
Daily Self Care Worksheet from BlessingManifesting
Self Care Bingo Printable from OurMindfulLife.com
A Self Care Wheel for self care ideas and inspiration
Self Care Bullet Journal Templates from LifeisMessyandBrilliant.com
Do you have (paid or free) recommendations for self care worksheets for adults?
If you have GREAT self care worksheets to recommend (paid or free), feel free to comment below!
Meanwhile, take care and have a good week.
Shikah
Free Printable Beauty Maintenance Checklist (for Self Care and mental health)
I’m sharing a beauty maintenance checklist for your self care and mental health. Self care worksheets for adults like this are getting more popular because our lives are getting more hectic! This can be part of your PDF self care kit (time to start one if you haven’t!).
I’ve created a beauty maintenance checklist with self care in mind. Self care means to nourish our emotions, body and mind. So this beauty maintenance checklist can be part of your personal self care kit in PDF form.
7 Signs that you need self care now
According to this ‘extreme’ self care book (affliate link!) there are 17 signs which show you need self care badly.
I will share 7 of the 17 signs which I feel are relevant to us.
You need self care right this second if you have a few of these thoughts:
“It’s rare to relax or to enjoy things that are fun.”
“I can’t remember the last time I had a good night’s sleep.”
“I hate disappointing people.”
“I give in to others because it makes me feel needed, important or worthy.”
“I often feel like I’m living my life for everyone else.”
“When I’m overwhelmed, tired, or stressed, I rarely think to ask for help.”
“I sometimes feel foolish about the ways in which I’ve put the needs of others before my own.”
You can find the other 10 signs that you need self care in this self care book.
By the way, I may make a small commission if you decide to take action or purchase anything using the affiliate links above. No extra cost to you!
Beauty therapy and self care
You can read about the link between beauty and self care from this blog post.
Women have been using beauty routines as self care since forever.
Massaging our face, a thorough body scrub after a long day, a skin-softening bubble bath, pampering our hair with luscious masks, layering a mask on our faces and resting are all examples of beauty and self care.
What is a beauty maintenance checklist?
A beauty maintenance checklist is a list of beauty habits to keep ourselves looking and feeling good. It’s no secret that when we look good, we feel good!
A beauty maintenance checklist tracks the days which you exfoliate, mask, wash your hair or anything else you wish. It makes sure that you are clean, fresh and lookin’ good even when your life is hectic as heck!
How does a beauty maintenance checklist give us self care?
A checklist gives us some sort of control in our lives.
During times when you feel like life is spiraling out of control, focusing on what you CAN control will empower you.
Feeling empowered is mental and emotional self-care. Besides, having a healthy and glowing skin is a triple bonus!
You can also have a checklist for your meals, a fitness checklist or a self care checklist. You can easily find these online.
I’be created a blank beauty maintenance checklist for you and one more with suggested beauty maintenance activities. These activities will give you some beauty self care ideas.
Want more free beauty maintenance checklists for self care?
1) Beauty Routine Checklist from LifeMadeBlog
2) Skincare Routine Tracker from AlibiDesignStudio
Download the beauty maintenance checklist below
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Have a good week!
Shikah
Top 7 Intentional Living Worksheets to Live a Purposeful Life
I’ve chosen 7 top intentional living worksheets for women so you can live on purpose today! You can download these intentional living coaching worksheets instantly and some of them are full of creative intentional living tips and ideas to inspire you.
I’ve chosen 7 top intentional living worksheets for women so you can live on purpose today! You can download these intentional living coaching worksheets instantly and some of them are full of creative intentional living tips and ideas to inspire you.
Why do we need an intentional living worksheet?
An intentional living worksheet can force us to think and take things slow when the world around us is moving at breakneck speed. Intentional living means living according to your purpose and values as much as you can.
We can’t be intentional 100% of the time. Tiredness, life problems and work deadlines can bust our intentional living goals.
You actually can start your intentional living journey the right way for free. Hear me out: if you get the FREE 30-day Audible trial, you can get an intentional living audiobook for FREE too. Sweet,yes?
I may make a small commission if you decide to take action or purchase anything using the affiliate links below. No extra cost to you!
It’s just 1 way for me to make a small income so I can keep providing you with valuable life-changing + life coaching advice.
✅ FREE 30-day Audible trial. If you can get THIS intentional living audiobook for free with your also-free Audible trial, grab it because it’s worth every non-existent penny you spend!
Ready for my list of top 7 intentional living worksheets? Read on!
Top 7 Intentional Living Worksheets for a Purposeful Life
Ready to start intentional living?
Living intentionally means being purposeful about our health, relationships, work and even hobbies.
The greatest reward? A more contented and happier you.
And placing happiness on relationships and experiences (which is the most memorable and joyful type of happiness in my opinion!).
Meanwhile, have a good week ahead!
Shikah
21 Journal Prompts to Build Your Self Worth Instantly
You will get 21 journal prompts to boost your self esteem in this blog post. These journal prompts are to do be done everyday for 21 days. You will have higher self esteem and self worth at the end of 21 days!
I will be sharing 21 self worth journal prompts to help you feel worthy of all the wonderful things life has to offer.
The meaning of ‘self worth’ in simple terms
Many have asked me whether self esteem and self worth are the same things.
Self-worth is how much you value yourself without your looks, your job, your achievements.
Self-esteem is how you think and feel about yourself and this is usually linked to your achievements, contributions and your work.
I would think that having a strong self worth is priceless. Should you be fired from your job or lose your abilities, will you still think of yourself as worthy? Or useless?
If you are curious to know whether you have low or high self esteem, you can take a reliable and easy test here.
Why these self worth journal prompts work
These self worth journal prompts force you to come up with answers to questions you avoid.
We avoid certain self worth questions because we don’t feel comfortable admitting that we have good qualities.
Sounds ironic? But some of us suffer from self worth wounds which are that deep.
If you can’t accept that you are made of wonderful qualities, ask yourself: “What is wrong with admitting that we are caring, loyal, generous, understanding, (insert other good characteristics you have) etc?”
Maybe you are afraid of people seeing you as boastful. Or as a show-off or an overconfident prick.
Or perhaps you are afraid of being wrong. What if you think you are ‘caring’ but other people don’t agree? That is horrifying.
My advice is: Everyone has their own opinions about you. Some people think you are arrogant when in fact you are shy.
Some may think you are lazy when in reality, you are highly anxious about taking action towards something.
So go on and toot your own horn. Accept that you have many, many good qualities within you. (And so do most other people. It’s nothing to be shy about.)
How to do self worth journalling prompts and boost self esteem the right way
If you are a beginner to journalling, you may find this how-to video helpful!
21 days of self worth journal prompts to boost your self esteem and self worth
Spend 5-10 minutes per question per day. The longer you allocate for these prompts, the better your answers will be.
Day 1: If your confidence increases by 20%, how would your life be different?
Day 2: If you have no fear, what will you be doing today?
Day 3: Who are 3 fearless women whom you admire? (They can be celebrities or people you know)
Day 4:If you do not care what people think, what will you be doing today?
Day 5: What can you do not to care about what other people think of you?
Day 6: What qualities do you have which you admire in other people?
Day 7: What are 3 talents or skills you have which you are proud of?
Day 8: What are 3 of your proudest achievements? (You can create your own success log here)
Day 9: Who are 3 people whose lives will be greatly affected if you are not around?
Day 10: If you visualise yourself as the woman you aspire to be, how would you act or dress differently today?
Day 11: What is one thing you are fearful of, but want to overcome?
Day 12: Name one thing you are envious about in another woman. (I’m referring to healthy envy, not jealousy!) What can you do to get there?
Day 13: I challenge you to ‘love what is’ today. This means loving your less than perfect apartment, appreciating not having a job at the moment, loving the fact that you have no plans today etc. Just love today the way it is. How does it make you feel?
Day 14: What is one thing you want badly in your life? What can you do to get that thing?
Day 15: What skills or talents do you have which people will pay for? Who are the people who have made money this way? How do they get successful doing this?
Day 16: List 10 activities which always put you in a good mood. Who are the people involved?
Day 17: What do you think is your bigger purpose in life? What can you do effortlessly which makes people feel good or make the world a better place?
Day 18: What do people compliment you about? If you can’t think of anything, ask trusted people what they think are your good qualities.
Day 19: Take a piece of paper and write your good qualities on it in full sentences. Give yourself 5 minutes for this exercise.
Day 20: Write a letter to a younger version of yourself (10 years younger). What are the good things which have happened over the years? How have your life and self esteem improved? What advice would you give your 10-years-younger self? (You get the idea)
Day 21: What are 3 of your ‘weaknesses’? How can your ‘weaknesses’ be useful or be seen as strengths? (You can also do this thoughts exercise to re-frame negative thoughts to become more positive thoughts).
Ready to start these self worth journal prompts?
Remember to allocate 5-10 minutes for each of these prompts every day.
Write continuously for 21 days - don’t skip days or you will be tempted to skip more days in between!
Self worth journal prompts can make you feel worthy over time. If you do a prompt everyday, you will get somewhere at the end of the 21 days.
You may be interested in my Self Esteem Journal which is packed with 21self-esteem exercises to build a confident mindset.
Have a good week!
Shikah
How to Set Relationship Boundaries and Be Self-Loving: 5 Ways
Setting boundaries with friends and family is always tricky! I’ll be sharing 5 habits of women who set healthy boundaries in this blog post. I hope you will feel more empowered and confident about your relationship boundaries after reading this!
These are 5 habits of women who set healthy boundaries to feel empowered and confident.
Setting boundaries is always tricky for us.
If we are too rigid, we will be seen as ‘selfish’.
If we have weak boundaries, we will be very frustrated with ourselves.
Some people will be happy with us, though. Because they get us to do what they want.
Self-love is needed in times like these. You can learn the 5 habits of self-love from this blog post.
If you learn better with videos, you can watch my video on setting boundaries below:
The trick about boundaries is to know when to give and take.
Being flexible takes some pressure off our shoulders.
It’s a matter of personal choice, but we decide where our boundaries are clearly drawn and where our boundaries can be a little more…fluid.
If you need a shortcut to help kick start your boundaries, you can download my Set Healthy Boundaries action sheet below.
I’ll be sharing 5 basic habits which can help us set basic boundaries so that we feel more empowered.
Habit #1: Get Rid of our Excuses
This needs us to be self-aware.
How many times have we made excuses for other people and allow them to overstep our boundaries?
Below are some examples:
”I don’t like my sister coming to my house 4 times a week. But she is lonely and has no family, so I…”
“I don’t want to lend my cousin $5000, but she is crying and begging me. She has a tough family background and comes from a financially-strapped family. Meanwhile, I have $20,000 sitting in my account. So I will…”
”I don’t want to answer my friend’s call at 11pm as I am sleepy and it’s not urgent. But she wants my input now and it will only take 10 minutes. So I…”
The first step to healing is always awareness.
Once we can pinpoint when we are making excuses for other people to crash our boundaries, we can take the next action. And implement some boundary rules.
Habit #2: how to Set Your Boundary Rules
When we set boundaries for the first time, our loved ones will react.
They may admire us and respect our boundaries or attack us for it.
If you set your boundaries politely and that cousin attacks you, you may want to cut back on the time you spend with her.
It’s good to be aware that conflict may happen when we set boundaries in our relationships. Just brace yourself.
You can choose to tell your loved one about your boundary face-to-face or in written form.
For example:
”Hi Sarah! It’s great that you came over to my house today. In future, is it okay if you call me first before coming over? I have some projects to take care of.”
”Hi Natasha! I’m sorry to hear about your money problems. I can’t give you $5000 as I need the cash myself. Is there any other way I can help you?”
”Hi Laura! I’m afraid I am very tired right now. Can I talk to you tomorrow instead?”
(Sometimes, a white lie or two is needed to preserve our sanity…oops!)
You can also text the above scripts to the person who flouts your boundaries.
Texting is good if you don’t like confrontation.
Or if the other person is aggressive and may attack you back.
We don’t want to be bullied into submission!
Habit #3: Be around SUPPORTIVE people
It is crucial to spend time with positive and uplifting people.
Check your feelings after meeting up with someone.
Do you feel drained, exhausted and uninspired?
Or do you feel joyful, motivated and in high spirits?
Don’t spend too much time with people who don’t care for your privacy or those who don’t respect you when you say ”Not now.”
It doesn’t matter if you have been friends for 20 years. If a friend does not respect a simple “No”, it’s time to relax the friendship a bit.
Habit #4: Be Comfortable with Not Explaining Yourself
This requires massive self-esteem.
You don’t have to explain yourself if you don’t want to. Please don’t!
If the person is pushy and keeps asking “Why don’t you want to tell me?”, you can laugh it off and say “I’ll tell you next time.” And then change the subject.
If you are gutsy, you can say something along the lines of: “I don’t think I want to share personal matters right now.”
You have the right not to answer questions you don’t want to.
You don’t owe anyone an explanation.
Again, a white lie may be needed if the other party is extremely pushy.
Or if you have to answer an unwanted question in front of an audience (I feel sorry for you).
Habit #5: Accept that Some People will STILL be Offended and Disappear
When we put our foot down or show our authentic self, some people will flee from our lives.
That is okay, because they are the ones we don’t have a genuine friendship with, in the first place.
We want to be with friends and family who love us for our true selves. And respect our likes and dislikes.
Your true friends will understand your boundaries.
Selfish friends and family will test your boundaries all the time.
You will lose friends by setting boundaries but that is when you find out who your true friends are.
My last thoughts on setting boundaries
If you need to kick start your boundary-setting, you can download my Set Healthy Boundaries printable below.
If you want to know 5 habits of self-loving women, read this blog post.
Meanwhile, have a good week.
Shikah
